Put love first.
We operate under the belief that because you exist you are valuable (worthy of love). Your value is not determined by how much money you have, how much money your family has, where you or your family comes from, your ability to produce or give, etc.
Therefore, we love you by aiming to understand where you are coming from based on your experiences and challenge your ideas and beliefs when they deny the value of or dehumanize others.
And if we really don’t care about a particular topic, then there’s no reason to say wack shit in response that harms you or makes your uncomfortable.
We expect the same from you.